A now former work colleague and I went to a local Target store a few weeks ago and bought a large stuffed elephant for our work space. Now, rather than us all needing to imagine the elephant in the room for our current work, we can all just look over to him and know, he knows. The all knowing; all seeing; quiet yet consistently there – elephant. In the room.
We all have our own elephants who quietly ride with us – everywhere. In fact, mine is so prominent I may start buying him a plane ticket.
Yesterday marked a pivotal day for me and Els (now the name of my traveling partner). Since 99.9% of those of you reading this know me (thanks Facebook for keeping my readership at 10 people rather than me for proofing and Mrs. M); you know that I’m on the final approach for my current plane ride. The final landing date hasn’t been finalized or has slipped in date a couple times but it is out there. The all knowing, always there – elephant.
Yesterday, however those timings became firmer. Turns out rather than just seeing another passenger leave the plane; I was informed that we’re getting a new captain. The reason the dates were slipping a touch is that I actually liked the current captain. The plane flies straight and it’s predictable. These qualities have made for a pleasant journey.
A new captain changes everything for me. Consulting with Els I realized that maybe I should start looking for a parachute and … then it occurred to me … WTF – why did my dates slip anyway? Diving more into the WTF question, I realized that if I was ready to jump out of the plane just because of a new captain then why not jump right now? Or soon?
After finding out about a possible new captain, I’d revised all my criteria for exiting the plane. Does this mean my criteria aren’t really valid? The more I think about it, the more I think they are more of an excuse for not taking the risk rather than a real hurdle.
Mrs. M, Els and I need to talk through some things this weekend after I spend some quality time with Excel. But, my thoughts have changed. The Elephant is shouting and it’s time to do something.
You know, it is Independence Day weekend. I may have to get Els a little Stars and Stripes flag to celebrate.